In Repose
Sitting here in my den, reclining in one of my overstuffed chairs, watching one of my favorite movies whilst pondering the last few months and weeks. I'm at the scene in the movie, Notting Hill, where Julia Robert's character says " Remember, I'm still just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her." And this is where I was, looking over at Micki several months ago. And love her I do. To hell with the naysayers, the doubters, the bastards who want nothing more than to put others' marriages down. They are undoubtedly the ones who haven't a clue what marriage is truly about. That it not about eating wedding cake every night. It is about ups and downs and joy and pain and birth and death and friends and enemies and love and hate. It is about everything. It may even be about typhoons and poetry and Scotch Tape. But at the end of the day my marriage is about Micki and Me. Even if I've been a daft prick.
posted by fergi at 9:24 PM
4 Comments:
Daft - can you give me the origion?
Can you use it in a sentence? Ok, let me skip it.... now Prick... Can you give me it's origion? Sendence?
OH... together....
Yes....
Clearly understood, from the bottom of my heart thank you for letting me sit here and keep my mouth shut when I'm supposed to but also let me speak up when I'm tired of letting me only fight with half of you. There is a whole other Half out there that need some hair pulling and mouth punching and I'm still mad at hell that someone would ever do this to my family. Thank you for being there every step of the way and holding me for not only losing a friend but being STABBED like I have been so harshly but not just her but several people in the proccess. And I can't even mention the LIES and the LIES and the LIES!!! Again I stand on the I did nothing wrong. I don't open my door up and say sure take anything you want free for the asking!! Including the Daft Prick!!
So MOM actually asked me what Daft meant last night too - so - I'm not all that Daft either.... sorry Andrew for all the spelling mistakes - new Meds - and it being so late and you not getting to proof - but it's so fun to read :)
Divorce is all about giving up and not fighting for what you want, it's what whimps do... you two are fighters...for your marriage, your family, your friendship. I am in your cheering section...you both know to be supportive of the other person....FORGIVENESS is the KEY...you can't change the past, work towards the future together, make you marriage stronger.
LOVE you both
Wendy, we wouldn't be where we were right now if it wasn't for you being our cheerleading squad, sister, our ears, our truth sayer and our down right this is how it has to be person. You are right from start to finish we are going to finish this this game called life. No throwing the board up in the air and saying I quit just because johnny got the pay taxes for the house card. It's the real game of life and we deal with the cards we get and we go on - we love you!!
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